Written by: Williams
Category: Adult dating Adult Personals Attraction Embarassing First Message free dating Online Dating Personals Profile Rejection
The first and obvious option about handling rejection on a free dating site would to never respond to said message in your inbox. That’s the easiest and simplest way of handling the situation. There is never any need to respond back in a rude fashion; if you choose to do this than you are a bad person. There are many easy ways to reject someone online without being rude.
If you can tell that the person using the same dating site as you who sent you a message put a lot of effort into their ‘first message’ (which, by the way, is a big deal because the ‘first message’ online is kind of a make-it or break-it situation) and you don’t want to simply ignore them then you clearly are a level-headed person with morals and a good head on their shoulders.
Think about it, how would you feel if you spent time browsing adult personals only to come across a profile of someone that genuinely interested you. Then let’s say you spent upwards of 45 min putting effort into writing your ‘first message’ you this person, only to never hear back from them or even worse – receive an awfully rude message telling you that they are not at ALL interested in you? I’m guessing you wouldn’t feel too good.
The best possible option you can go with is to sent a polite and short-straight-to-the-point message back to said person simply explaining that you appreciate the message and are flattered but are not interested at the moment.
Honest is the best policy.
