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Smart phones, social media and online datingIn a world where almost everyone is using some sort of smart phone like a Blackberry, iPhone or Android to communicate with the world, use social apps, use the internet, and last of all actually make phone calls one has to wonder, “Is there even a point to using a dating site, or can it all be done via smart phone?” How exactly does one get from text to sex? There most definitely is an in-between and it can happen in a plethora of ways.

What is the best social media site for picking up online instead of real life?

In all honesty there is no identical substitute for meeting people in real life, but meeting people online is just as effective and extremely popular these days. I would always suggest trying to get out there, grab the bull by the horns and attempt to pick up a few men or women before trying online, but I understand that sometimes may not be the easiest situation for some people, what with busy career lifestyles, nervous personalities, etc. Using sites like Facebook or Myspace are great for meeting people. Even free dating sites are useful. Be wary of sites that make you pay. If you can meet someone in a bar for free you shouldn’t have to pay online — that just doesn’t make sense.

What is the best social media site for maintaining a new relationship?

The trick to maintaining a good relationship — especially online — is to maintain a daily or at least consistent presence in their lives. Sending a daily message, wall post, e-mail, or anything like that on a social media site will assure that the person you are interested in will always be thinking of you — just don’t become a crazy stalker and overdo it. Facebook really is a great way to keep a loved one up to date on what is going on in your life, what with the private messages, chat options and uploaded photos.

How do I turn someone on via Facebook or email?

The key to this is constant conversation and moving slow. Don’t message him or her out of the blue and describe in every little detail what you’d like to do to him or her once you get him or her in bed. That might scare him or her off. Work slowly, find out what he or she likes, and make your moves via text. It really isn’t that hard to run game online and if you are genuine it will come across as real.

You will soon realize that you’ve crossed “that borderline” and you’ve turned him or her on. Keep the conversation flowing though, and subtly make a suggestion about having him or her come over to ‘watch a movie’. Keep it light and clean, but the option of sex will still be in the background of the context.

Never make it seem like all you are interested in is sex because — women especially — will pick up on this and be turned off immediately. Make it seem like you are playfully flirting, and want to be friends. Period.

 

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